Amber, with pink hair and a sweater, sits with a phone.

Amber

I like to chat. 
It’s easier to write 
than it is to talk. 

That is why dating online 
is perfect for me. 

A while ago, I was chatting 
with a guy named Henrik. 

We wrote to each other every day. 
He was funny 
and he wrote nice things to me. 

One day he sent me a sexy picture 
of himself. 
He was naked. 

He wrote that I should send him 
a sexy picture of me. 

I took a few selfies with my phone 
and sent them to Henrik. 

He said I should     
take off more of my clothes. 

I did not know if I wanted to. 
But it still felt 
kind of exciting. 

So I did it. 

In the end, I was naked. 

When I sent the pictures 
Henrik wrote 
that he wanted us to meet up. 

I thought things were moving too fast, 
so I said no.

Then Henrik wrote that he would 
post the pictures online 
if I didn’t meet him. 

It felt like a punch to the stomach! 

I didn’t want it to be like this. 
The pictures were only supposed to be for Henrik. 

I had thought he was cool. 

I didn’t trust him anymore. 

My friends helped me 
write a text message to Henrik. 

We wrote that we would 
report him to the police 
if he kept writing to me.

Then he stopped writing. 

A heart with flowers and the text “No means no”.

I want to continue dating online. 

But I want to know more about the person 
before I send a picture again. 

You get to decide 
if you want to send 
nude pictures to someone. 

If someone spreads nude pictures 
of you against your will, 
you should report it to 
the police. 

If you want to send pictures, 
send them to people 
who you know and trust. 

If you are unsure, 
you can wait 
to send a picture.